Saturday, September 5, 2009

人生不是得到…就是學到老


1. 「人生不是得到就是學到」

你不是得到一份圓滿的因緣;就是學到怎樣更靠近幸福。
你不是得到勝利;就是學到如何避免失敗。

你不是得到最終自己想要的結果;就是學到世事總不會盡如人意。

2. 開心與不開心,往往都只在人的一念之間,何不放開一點、簡單一點、單純一點呢。集滿三點..我想會開心一點哦?

3. 生命的靈魂是上帝創造的,生活的精彩是自己規劃的,人活到老學到老,這句話我很認同,但是不要活到老做到老。

4. 蠶要破繭才能變成蛾,小雞必須破蛋才能變成大雞,相同的,人必須先破除心中的圍牆,才能探索圍牆以外的世界。

5. 生命中有許多的場合,都要痛下決心去選擇離開;離開,不一定是悲傷,有時候是為了到達另一個新境界的過程。

6. 自在就像蝴蝶,你愈想去捕捉,牠愈消失於無形,但是,當你疲倦放棄時,牠卻悄悄的飛近你身旁。

7. 思考不是鑽牛角尖,也不是想事情,而是聯想事情,就像神經的系統,因為創意是從聯想而來,一個不經意的聯想,就能找到一個創意,很可能因此改變你一生,也可能改變整個世界。

8. 平常缺少壓力的人生活過的比較悠,有壓力的人生活比較積極緊湊,同理可知,有夢想的人一定比沒有夢想的人堅強,實現夢想的途中沒有人可以難為你,就怕你自己難為你自己。
有夢的人最美,勇敢做一個有夢的人,夢想所以會實現,是因為你從來不想放棄。

9. 過去的就讓它過去吧,雲淡風清不留下絲毫的污穢,分手不出惡言這是與人相處的修養。

10. 知道怎麼上台的人,不一定懂得怎麼下台,上台靠的是機會,下台需要靠的是智慧啊。

Friday, September 4, 2009

爱心便当

爸妈送来的爱心便当。。。。虽然普通。。。不过很好吃哦!!!
也许我太饿了,还是很久没有这种感觉了!!!
^^

Positiveness


Keep your THOUGHTS positive, because your THOUGHTS become your WORDs.
Keep your WORDS positive, because your WORDS become your ACTIONS
Keep your ACTIONS positive, because your ACTIONS become your HABITS.
Guide your HABITS and keep them positive as your HABITS become your VALUES.
Keep your VALUES positive, because your VALUES become your DESTINY.

The nurtured seed always produces abundance harvest - Mahatma Gandhi.

Thursday, September 3, 2009

A Short course in Human Relations

  • the 6 most important words:" I admit I made a mistake"
  • the 5 most important words:" you did a good job"
  • the 4 most important words:" what is your opinion"
  • the 3 most important words:" if you please"
  • the 2 most important words:" thank you"
  • the 1 most important words:" we"
  • the least important word :" I"

Tuesday, September 1, 2009

The FOUR spiritual LAWs

Just as there are physical laws that govern the physical universe, so are there spiritual laws which govern your relationship with God.
1. God LOVES you and offers a wonderful PLAN for your life.

(References contained on this page are from the Bible and should be read in context wherever possible.)

God's Love
"God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish, but have eternal life" (John 3:16 NIV).

God's Plan
[Christ speaking] "I came that they might have life, and might have it abundantly" [that it might be full and meaningful] (John 10:10).

Why is it that most people are not experiencing the abundant life?
Because...


2. Man is SINFUL and SEPARATED from God. Therefore, he cannot know and experience God's love and plan for his life.

Man Is Sinful
"All have sinned and fall short of the glory of God" (Romans 3:23).

Man was created to have fellowship with God; but, because of his stubborn self-will, he chose to go his own independent way, and fellowship with God was broken. This self-will, characterized by an attitude of active rebellion or passive indifference, is evidence of what the Bible calls sin.

Man Is Separated
"The wages of sin is death" [spiritual separation from God] (Romans 6:23).

This diagram illustrates that God is holy and man is sinful. A great gulf separates the two. The arrows illustrate that a man is continually trying to reach God and the abundant life through his own efforts, such as a good life, philosophy, or religion - but he inevitably fails.

The third law explains the only way to bridge this gulf...


3. Jesus Christ is God's ONLY provision for man's sin. Through Him you can know and experience God's love and plan for your life.

He Died in Our Place
"God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us" (Romans 5:8).

He Rose From the Dead
"Christ died for our sins...He was buried...He was raised on the third day, according to the Scriptures...He appeared to Peter, then to the twelve. After that He appeared to more than five hundred..." (1 Corinthians 15:3-6).

He Is the Only Way to God
"Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, and the truth, and the life; no one comes to the Father, but through Me'" (John 14:6).

This diagram illustrates that God has bridged the gulf which separates us from Him by sending His Son, Jesus Christ, to die on the cross in our place to pay the penalty for our sins.

It is not enough just to know these three laws...


4. We must individually RECEIVE Jesus Christ as Savior and Lord; then we can know and experience God's love and plan for our lives.

We Must Receive Christ

"As many as received Him, to them He gave the right to become children of God, even to those who believe in His name" (John 1:12).

We Receive Christ Through Faith

"By grace you have been saved through faith; and that not of yourselves, it is the gift of God; not as a result of works, that no one should boast" (Ephesians 2:8,9).

When We Receive Christ, We Experience a New Birth

(Read John 3:1-8)

We Receive Christ by Personal Invitation
[Christ speaking] "Behold, I stand at the door and knock; if any one hears My voice and opens the door, I will come in to him" (Revelation 3:20).

Receiving Christ involves turning to God from self (repentance) and trusting Christ to come into our lives to forgive our sins and to make us what He wants us to be. Just to agree intellectually that Jesus Christ is the Son of God and that He died on the cross for your sins is not enough. Nor is it enough to have an emotional experience. You receive Jesus Christ by faith, as an act of the will.

These two circles represent two kinds of lives:

















Which circle best describes your life?

Which circle would you like to have represent your life?

Monday, August 31, 2009

normal birthday picture

haha... all can fix in the picture d!!!haha...look nice...

FuNNy birThday cElEbration


Jessica and me were the MOST normal one in this picture. but our pose like a bit slating right? haha.... weird too...
Shin Siang leh was the SEXY one in this pic. don't know when he would like to change his profession to become a MODEL!!! SEXY MODEL!!! haha...
our main main birthday UNCLE-Shin Lun waiting for us to celebrate for him, beh kuai he expected so much la... but... he really not observant enough, Xiu Li put on 26 candles for him for his 25th birthday cake he also accept it....haiz... good also la... we no need celebrate for he next year... we just present him this kinda pic. more then enough...haha...(have to make clarification for xiuli, actually she din mean to add in 1 more candle, is us wanna test whether he will realize or not).
got 2 person like to play pea-ka-boo behind...1 person left half face... another 1 half also can't see it!!! haha...
Teresa was the Half face one, and laughing happily there....
Wendy was the one kena blocked by me... anyway...i just saw where is the camera place, and focused on it... haha... pai seh la!!!
Yan Ling was the person sat nicely there, but unfortunately when capture time, she wanna share something i think, so end up with this!!!haha....
actually still have some ppl don't know where they hide.... my sis as a CAMERA girl... so can be excused..haha... but Christine and John don't know where they hide....so i will give them a label in facebook....haha... can go there have a look so!!!haha...

Wednesday, August 26, 2009

My Kind 0f boy

Now, here's what you're supposed to do, and please do not spoil the fun. Copy and paste this into your notes, delete my answers, type in your answers and tag 20 of your friends here in facebook to answer this. Then see what happens.

if you a guy- post this as my kind of girl...
if your a girl- post it as my kind of boy...

1. Do you need him/her to be good looking?
if he is that's good

2. Smart?
At least not STUPID then me!!!haha...

3. Preferred age?
older then me... as long as mature then me should be ok... but not too UNCLE!!!

4. Preferred height?
taller than me for sure

5. How about sense of humor?
Yes

6. How about piercings?
pierce at where??? hope not

7. Accepts you for who you are?
of course

8. Pink hair?
yier!!! gerli

9. Mushy or no?
what's that?

10. Thin or fat?
normal... don't too fat.

11. Black, Brown or White (skin color)?
healthy skin colour

12. Long hair or short hair?
preferred short (as long as good looking & tidy)

13. Plastic or metal? * cute or pretty ?
wat mean plastic or metal???

14. Smells good?
who likes smelly one wo??? siao meh

15. Smoker?
no.definately.

16. Drinker?
can drink occasionally but not an alcohol addict

17. Girl/Boy-next-door type?
no.

18. Muscular?
a bit muscle which can show up his body shape then just nice~~

19. Plays piano??
hmm.... not really la... if can sure the best... at least he got music sense that good enough ...

20. Plays bass and/or acoustic guitar?
if can that's great.we can create a band with a pianist and guitarist.

21. Plays violin?
hmm... if can that's good. He can teach me...

22. Sings very good?
hmm... dun badly sing... if not i sure FAINT!!!

23. Vain?
no please

24. With glasses?
Dun mind

25. With braces?
DUn mind..

26. Shy type?
is ok la... some shy guy very funny...

27. Rebel or good boy/girl?
normal

28. Active or passive?
Active that better la, if not i will feel damn bored.

29. Tight or bomb? * hot or sexy ?
tight or bomb????huh???

30. Singer or dancer?
hmm... if dance, cannot be too ladies must "yeng" one!

31. stunner?
don't mind

32. Hiphop?
don't mind

33. Earrings?
not like ladies wearing that types should be ok

34. Mr/Ms. count-my-ex-girlfriends-un
til-you-drop?
no.

35. Dimples?
Don't mind

36. Bookworm?
NO..i don't like BOOKs... except BIBLE! haha

37. Mr/Ms. love letter?
is ok la

38. Playful?
occasionally

39. Flirt?
ONLY wif me... hehe...

40. Poem writer?
no need la, but if he has talent on it should write it!!! hehe...

41. Serious?
in serious situation MUST be!!!

42. Campus crush?
don't mind

43. Painter?
don't mind... bcoz i also not good in that!!!


44. Religious?
same...MUST!

45. Someone who likes to tease people?
hmm... see who the one he teasing


46. Computer games geek? Or internet freak
hope not too SICK of that!!!


47. Speaks 20 languages?
translater meh?? too many for me... the language i prefer to use and he knew it that's more then enough

48. Loyal or faithful?
SURE!

49. good kisser?
haha..good wo~ din't think bout that yet!!! haha

50. emotional or cool ?
not too emotional... and not cool till can nearly FREEZE me!!! hehe

additional *
where can find some one really fulfill all the requirement wor.... haha... everyone also have their weakness... just have to see how u gonna adjust it and make abit changes.hehe...

Monday, August 24, 2009

面对压力

面对压力时,请记住:

-没有过不去的事情,只有过不了的心事。

-能解决的不必担心,不能解决的担心也没有用。

-《西藏生死书》作者索甲仁波切教人打坐一定有三句话,第一是把心带回来,第二是放下,最后是放松。

-悲观的人从山脚下看世界,乐观的人从山腰看世界,达观的人从山顶看世界。

-三不要法:

#不要拿别人的过错来惩罚自己,

#不要拿自己的过错来惩罚别人,

#不要拿自己的过错来惩罚自己。



巨人“羞耻” Giant of Shame


巨人“羞耻” Giant of Shame
—1 Samuel 17:1—
剥光,去掉羞耻
strip naked, peel shamefulness.
生命中会有软弱,向以色列人被哥利亚羞辱

羞耻与赤裸走在一起
—创世纪2:25—
—创世纪3:3-7—
像亚当犯了罪,感到羞耻,赶紧用叶子把自己遮起来,
不过神就召见他,也就用皮子做衣服给他们穿。—我们需要神来帮助我们。
如何应对?
只有真理才能助你面对“羞耻”
shame must be face with the truth.
1Samuel 17:26
V40一枚staff
V43一枚stick
不要看自己是失败的人
你可是耶稣用宝血重价赎回来的。
看你选择听撒旦给你的称呼,还是上帝给你的评价。
你的软弱,耶稣已经为你钉在十字架上了;
撒旦尝试控告你,耶稣替你还清。
we are paid by the blood of God!!!
你得相信你是谁!
—1 Peter 2:9—
Believe in who are you and what u have it!
—腓立比书4:13—
Romans 8:31-37
摩西的杖如何变为神的杖?
出埃及记4:1—4,20
出埃及记17:9
不要总是被你的缺陷影响你。
Let the truth can be subsitude for the shame.
2Peter2:24....