历史被改变的一天

那一天 历史被改变的一天
无辜的救主 活活被盯死
尝尽一切罪恶 与痛苦
在悲痛之间也没有怨言
还祈求 天父能够 宽恕盯死他的人们
被所爱的拒绝 你能否了解
就连最爱他的天父 也闭上了眼

如果没有那一天 没有那一天
我们还沉沦 在最恶之间
没有那一天 没有那一天
有谁能明白什么叫做 爱 的牺牲 喔~ 喔~ 喔~ 啊~ 喔~喔~喔~

当爱与痛苦交加在 一起立神那里
神的慈悲与恩典降临 那鲜血册册 一滴又一滴
只为了拯救我和你

（歌词如果有点错词别见怪。。。我凭印象写下 ^^）

Boring Sat. morning

Wake up early in the morning plan to go with parent to take their lab test result, but after i wake up and dress up just heard they wanna go here and there to do their thing and maybe go for hair cut. In the case, I hope i can escape from that... is tiring to go here and there without the willing to do so. I still headache for my holiday, where and how i should spend it much better then staying at home and doing nothing. ~sigh~ Everything not in my plan now... I have much much thing planning to do... but still in waiting list... watch movie, sing K, go trip, go shopping.... all need $$...... Euu.... everything is $$$$$$ really can transform me to be $$ face in future...>.<...... Such a complicated feeling...

My nights

2days we take over also very less child. 1st day is better, so senior staff nurse want me to learn to incharge some of the child... wow that night really cant fall asleep when thinking need to pass over report to all the senior.... damn stress... ^^ 2nd night is more relax.... i just need to be runner...^^
night time saw a baby crying coz if hungry but lazy to suck.... so have to help feed with syringe.... cute la d baby........
had a daddy take care a child at night. By rules we are not allow to let d father to take care the child, but the daddy dont know it... after that we no choice have to tell d father to wait outside.... haha... the child after operation but quite ok la... slept... pity the father have to come n see d child on and off... i think he din have places to sleep jz can sit outside and wait... pity la... haiz... daddy oso very noble..^^
beside, all mothers also busy to take care their child... had 1 mother kick by her child.... coz the child refuse to take the medication.... pity the mother have to try let him take it.... haiz....
child sick sure the parent will be the one suffer.... haiz........ so treat ur parent nicely...... they had put in alot of effort when u are young ^^

thanks Daddy

wow.... such a good and lovely daddy....
I'm on night duty last night, started to have a nap in d afternoon, before i get into sleep, my dad back home. He bring along food for me. Is my favorite food with bak kut teh. He had plan for me my lunch and my dinner. But i just having my breakfast, i cant take that anymore. I just plan to sleep anyway. that morning, he go to have my sis's car repair. Tha aircone had something wrong with that so have to repair. He also pumped full petrol for me scare it may not enough for me to drive to pg to work. wow... such a nice father, after that he go for his car repair. When i open my eyes from the nap, he is there waiting for me to go to work. He cooking the rice, warm up the "bak kut teh" for me. Wow.... After that he keep repeating to advice me to drive slowly and safely if there is rainning. He prepare my supper for me in a plastic bag scare i forget to take it... when he wanna go out to fetch my mum, he check and see whether have leave the car's key for me. I get touched anyways.
another daddy very noble i had met. when i working on night duty, a child have to go nebulizer on time, 4 hourly, her mother feel uncomfortable when stay in hosp. so they go to the nearest apartment have a stay. this child have to be back for the nebulizer on time, bout 3am like that.
the daddy carried the child from the apartment to d hosp. just for that... then back again then have to back hosp. b4 7am for next nebulizer... wow such a good daddy have to sacrifice his sleeping time for the child. I really duno how to describe the love of a daddy with his child... but i know that is love....make it happen...
thanks God i had a wonderful dad too ^^

Love is shown by Work in marriage

In married life, how do we let our spouse know that he/she is loved? Can our spouse feel this love through our words and deeds? Words are relatively easy. But love without work is like a body without a soul. We must work at being loving otherwise love will slowly fade away. The work we do will show how much our spouse means to us. Without work it is just lip service. It is just words. It is insincere and it is empty. But working takes effort and that puts us out of our comfort zone. It means going the extra mile for our loved one.
It is often said that love is shown by work of self-sacrifice and self-forgetfulness. Easy to talk, but, how do we work at them?
I believe in Jesus Christ so I go to Him for help. You may like to research into your respective religious faith in Bahai, Buddhism, Hinduism, Islam, Jains, Judaism, Sikhism, Taoism, Zoroastrianism, etc, for help.
The Bible points out many ways in which we can work to attain the oneness, the joy and companionship we desire in our marriage. For love to grow and flourish in a marriage, we have to put in the effort to:

1. Work
Jesus loves us and He works at it, “we must carry out the work of the One who sent Me; the night will soon be here when no one can work”(John 9:4 NJB). God loves us and St Paul says, “God, who began this good work in you, will carry it on until it is finished...” (Philippians 1:6 TEV)
When we court our mate, we work to look our best, we work at being on time, we work to be at our best behaviour, we work to please our mate, we take effort and time to select and give gifts that please, etc. When we have a baby we work at making the baby grow up healthy. We hug, kiss, feed, fuss over, change nappies, and wake up in the middle of the night to attend to the baby’s cry. We work and serve the need of the baby out of love and we get immense joy when the baby gives us a smile.
Most importantly the couple must work at not hurting each other. All couples crave gentleness from each other. Therefore, it is vital not to hurt each other by coldness, by angry scolding, by giving the silent treatment, by bitter words, by pushing the emotional triggers, by impatience, by harsh criticisms, by constant irritation, by neglect, by the withholding of the expressions of affection. Love craves its daily bread of tenderness. No couple should deny their spouse the little things of affection, the amenities of love, along the busy and trying days.
Mother Teresa says, “People who really and truly love each other are the happiest people in the world.” (Loving Jesus, 15) So, how do we continue to work at making our spouse know our love? The couple must constantly work at their marriage, spending time on it and making it into a labour of love.

2. Accept Differences
Do I always want my way? Do I become angry when I don’t have my way? But we are all unique. We are all brought up differently. So if we demand that our spouse follow only our way, we will have constant conflict and misunderstandings. We must learn to be tolerant so as to allow, accommodate and accept differences in views, perspectives, values, mannerisms, and ways of doing things. St Paul tells us, “Show your love by being tolerant with one another” (Ephesians 4:2 TEV)

3. Initiate Giving Love
What would be the result of our taking the initiative to express love towards our spouse? Am I affectionate? Do I nurture a gentle and patient relationship? We know that all good parents constantly encourage and affirm their children; do I regularly do the same with my spouse? The Bible tells us, ”we love Him because He first loved us.”(1 John 4:19 TEV) We must take the initiative and not forget the Golden Rule, “Do for others what you want them to do for you.” (Matthew 7:12 TEV) What the passages teach us is that if we want to nurture love in our relationship, we have to initiate giving love first.

4. Trust
Trust is the most fundamental ingredient in any lasting relationship. Am I deceptive and manipulative in my relationship with my spouse? Do I have double standards? Before we can trust each other we must be trustworthy ourselves. Faithfulness is vital for any married relationship. Without the deliberate choice to stay faithful, how can my spouse trust me? And one of the fruits of the Holy Spirit is “faithfulness” (Galatians 5:22 TEV). St Paul declares that love “believes all things,” emphasising the necessity of trust in any loving relationship. (1 Corinthians 13:7 NKJV)

5. Give sacrificially
At the root of all marital conflict is the struggle of who do I love more---myself or my spouse? Am I always self-serving? Am I considerate to my spouse’s feelings or am I only sensitive to my own feelings? Jesus acknowledges that it is natural that we all love ourselves very well but He commands us to “Love your neighbour as you love yourselves.” (Matthew 22:39 TEV) Our spouse is our closest neighbour. St Paul tells us, ”Men ought to love their wives just as they love their own bodies. A man who loves his wife loves himself. (None of us ever hate our bodies. Instead, we feed them, and take care of them)” [Ephesians 5:28-29 TEV]. Am I willing to sacrifice my innate self-centredness for the welfare and happiness of my spouse? Mother Teresa reminds us that, ”Love, in order to survive, must be nourished by sacrifices, especially the sacrifice of self.” (Loving Jesus, 101)

6. Restrain certain actions
How many times has our spouse requested us to refrain from certain behaviour? Has our spouse reminded us not to use foul language? Not to be so free with our sarcastic remarks? Has our spouse constantly asked us to stop our angry outbursts? Am I too proud to give way to such requests? Every time we fail to restrain ourselves, our spouse begins to question our love. God restrains Himself because of His great love for us: “For the sake of My name I shall defer My anger, for the sake of My honour I shall be patient with you, rather than destroy you.” (Isaiah 48:9 NJB)

7. Always seek reconciliation and compromise
Jesus seeks reconciliation with the whole world because He loves us and, ”He does not want anyone to be destroyed, but wants all to turn away from their sins.”(2 Peter 3:9 TEV) God devises a compromise to judgement by giving His Son to take our place, “For God loved the world so much that He gave His only Son, so that everyone who believes in Him may not die but have eternal life.” (John 3:16 TEV) Love will always seek to find a solution to every conflict in marriage and be prepared to make compromises and to forgive and make up, regardless of who is right or wrong. It is the unity of the couple that really counts.

8. Commit Ourselves
Commitment is the enduring and long-suffering quality of love that works and fights to strengthen a relationship. It is in the nature of true love to bind itself, to commit itself. St Paul described this quality when he said, “Love suffers long. . . bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails.”(1 Corinthians 13:4,7,8 NKJV) Do we possess this kind of commitment? This kind of patience and commitment is essential if we are to find a solution to the inevitable conflict of personality differences in a marriage. The couple must have the willingness to stay the course and not give up too readily.

9. Endless Forgiveness
People we love often hurt us unintentionally or intentionally by what they do or what they fail to do. If we want our love to flourish and grow at home, we have to learn to forgive endlessly. Jesus reminds Peter the number of times he has to forgive his brother, “’Lord, if my brother keeps on sinning against me, how many times do I have to forgive him? Seven times?’ ‘No, not seven times,’ answered Jesus, ‘but seventy times seven’” (Matthew 18:21-22 TEV). Similarly, Mother Teresa advises, “We must make our homes centers of compassion and forgive endlessly.” (A Gift for God, 18)

10. Stop keeping scores
The Bible teaches that “love does not keep a record of wrongs” (1 Corinthians 13:5 TEV). But can I choose to stop keeping scores of wrong done to me? We must learn to fully and completely forgive our spouse for the wrongs done to us. Forgiveness is fundamental to the growth of a loving relationship. Mother Teresa stresses, “We know that if we really want to love we must learn how to forgive.” (A Gift for God, 18) Jesus reminds us “If you do not forgive others, then your Father will not forgive the wrongs you have done.”(Matthew 6:15 TEV) God promises “I will forgive their sins and will no longer remember their wrongs.” (Hebrew 8:12 TEV) God does not keep a record of our wrongs when we repent. Similarly, we have to do the same.

11. Small acts of Care and Consideration
Many find it difficult to perform small acts of care and consideration in their homes. So we need a mindset change to provide them. The small acts of care and consideration are the daily living routine in the home such as encouraging, supporting, cheering, hugging, cooking, washing up after meals, vacuuming the house, smiles, taking time to chat and listen, warm greetings, accepting differences, constant affirmation, etc. If we can perform these little acts cheerfully and readily for each other, we will make our homes much more peaceful and happy. It is important that we learn the joy of sharing and serving each other. St Paul emphasises, “Let us be concerned for one another, to help one another, to show love and to do good.”(Hebrew 10:24 TEV)

12. Communicate
How our friends respond to our requests will determine how the friendship will progress---will it be better, strained or possibly end. Friendships that break are the ones that are full of verbal smoke screen. But friendships that last are the ones when individuals communicate how they desire to be loved. Jesus communicates His love for His disciples: ”I love you just as the Father loves Me”(John 15:9 TEV). “My commandment is this: love one another, just as I love you”(John 15:12 TEV). Jesus also communicates how He wants us to love Him in return: ”If you love Me, you will obey My commandments” (John 14:15 TEV). Similarly all marriages need constant honest and sincere communication between couple to flourish, grow and last. We must constantly affirm: “I love you very much.” “You mean everything to me.” “You make my day.” “I care for you.” “I think of you often.” “You are my greatest gift.” “Marrying you is the best decision I have made.”
We communicate our love by our words, attitudes and deeds.

13. Anger
Do I get angry if I don’t get my way? Do I have a short fuse? Anger takes many forms. It can be obvious or it can be subtle. Some tempers manifest themselves in the following ways:

a) explosion----we rage, we use anger to lash out at others and intimidate them.

b) implosion----we give the silent treatment, we sulk, we turn it inward and beat ourselves up.

c) irritation---we have little tolerance, we are out of control.

d) repetition---we nag constantly, we are stuck in the same angry groove.

We are the only one who can make ourselves angry. We choose how we respond to the event that upset us. We must choose to take active steps “never let the sun set on our anger or else we will give the devil a foothold.” (Ephesians 4:27 NJB) The devil of anger will build walls between the couple. Taming our anger is one step towards demolishing the walls of resentment and lack of tolerance.

14. Mercy
All marriages have their differences. There will always be disagreements. One major obstacle to reconciliation in any dispute is for the couple to stand on their pride and to stand on their presumed rightness. No reconciliation can start if the spouses do not learn to extend mercy to each other. Although the merciful one knows the risk of being hurt again, he/she still seeks ways to extend mercy.
But what has mercy got to do in a marriage relationship? We know that mercy is extending kindness to the other party. When I refuse to extend mercy, I am implicitly saying that you must first pay for the so called hurt you have done to me before we can be reconciled. You must pay by apologizing first. I justify myself and I want justice. I put myself right and the other party wrong. I maintain that I am right. I am too proud to admit to any fault or to forgive first. If both sides ardently justify themselves, there can be no reconciliation. In order for the marriage to grow, we must learn to extend mercy to each other. For “Blessed are the merciful, For they shall obtain mercy” (Matthew 5:7 NKJV). And when we extend mercy to our spouse, we are being kind to ourselves. As Portia in Shakespeare’s “The Merchant of Venice” says, “It (mercy) is twice blest: It blesseth him that gives and him that takes” (Act4: Scene I:184-185).
If we constantly harden our heart and ask for “our pound of flesh,” we will invariably head for trouble in our marriage. So don’t harbour grudges. Don’t rankle and don’t let the sun go down by standing on our self-righteousness and pride. Each may think that he/she is right but remember that there are many ways to look at the same thing. Jesus tells the Pharisees to “go and learn what this means: 'I desire mercy and not sacrifice'” (Matthew 9:13 NKJV). Thus we must also go and learn to extend mercy in any marriage dispute to come to reconciliation.

15. Putting our spouse first
Am I always kind and appreciative to my spouse? When I take action or make a decision, do I consider my spouse first. St Paul stresses this priority when he says that we are to “learn first of all to do our duty to our own families”(1 Timothy 5:4 NJB). Duty here means respect or godliness. So our first priority must be to show respect and godliness to the people in our homes. We must also “look out for one another’s interest, not just for your own.” (Philippians 2:4 TEV)

It is extremely important to remember that the limited checklist above is for oneself to grow and improve and NOT as a checklist to use against our spouse. None of us, on our own effort, will have the staying power to stick to the above works. But if we ask the Holy Spirit within us to guide and help us stay the course, we will, in time, come close to achieving the ideal love we all so desired.

Incidentally, an easy way to constantly review in our mind the above deeds is to remember this acronym:
We patiently W A I T for G R A C E S from God. So let us go and join His C A M P.

In summary, constantly remind ourselves to:
1.Work on loving our spouse,
2.Work at NOT HURTING each other and
3.Work towards making our marriage a labour of love.
Love works only for those who WORK at it and with the help of the Holy Spirit through constant prayers.

My FISH TANK (cont) !!!

Welcome to my Fish world ^^

nice Bubble effect^^

can see my Blue little fish??? with my mouse fish ^^

My ghost knife fish sleeping inside leh ^^

just can see it's TAIL...

my shinning blue fish....... nice leh???

can see d shadow also ^^

《是美男啊》 曲

默默无语-朴信惠

当初不该答应 当初不该认识

假装看不到 无法看到

根本不该看到你

当初应该逃跑 应该装没听到

假装听不到 无法听到

根本不该听到你的爱情

# 让我稍无声息地明白爱情

把爱情稍无声息地交给我

连空气都充满你的身影 却如此消失

爱情稍无声息地离开我

爱情稍无声息地抛弃我

该说些什么 紧闭的嘴唇 独自恍然若失

稍无声息地来

My FISH TANK !!!

My lovely fish Tank.... nice right???

Now adding some new fishes d.... will update it soon ^^

1st gathering after 2 weeks holiday

wow... damn many people are watching the AVATAR 3D... so... the ticket is selling fast...

so we watch the princess and the Frog.

after that we go for our dinner..@ Chili ^^

Our drinks... fruits juice

Chips... can be refill...wow...@.@

my salad

Salad.... another type

all dishes is damn BIG size...

Yummy sandwich...

Potato... but I wrongly pronounce become...TomaTo.. ^^

Look nice right???

Our dessert...... yummy... hot with cold...

gather and eat ^^

sharing dessert ^^

My chips.... >.<

Added plates.... play with it ^^

Lovely chips... refill and refill ^^

eat together... enjoy together

^^ wonderful gathering....

When is the next gethering??? ^^ waiting for it

My last 2009 for God

So fast.... times gone by.>><<>><<

God, I thanks u for everything u have blessed me. My family, my health, my study and my job....
Nothing is impossible as u be with me.
Last night, when I pray, it like a slide show that I can refresh back what I had done through out the year.
My tears keep dropping, I can't control.
Many thing I make u sad Lord, but u never forsaken me.
As I know that I can go through this 3 years course of nursing is not by myself, is with u Lord.
You gave me strength to make it happen.
When I been stressed up, u will comfort me in your way. It's amazing.
Many peoples were sharing their testimonies, how you guide them, protect them, love them.
This all I had experienced it. It's true, and 1 thing I still owe you Lord- a testimony. ^^
But I think I will share it with my friends. Is more comfortable for me to make it this way.

Yeah...Start on a new year = NEW LIFE.

Transform me, Lord. I wanna be better person than I'm now. As a song:

Change my heart oh God
Make it ever true
Change my heart oh God
May I be like You

You are the potter
I am the clay
Mold me and make me
This is what I pray...

hope the year end of 2010,
you can see my improvement and don't be disappointed again on me!!!
AMEN.